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Review: Safe Church

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In looking for a book that addresses abuse in the church, I'm thankful that I came across one that specifically highlights the experiences of women. Safe Church by Dr. Andrew J. Bauman provides a glimpse into the harsh realities that many Christian women may face in their churches and ministries, revealing just how much work is needed to ensure that all congregants are and feel safe.

Many thanks to Baker Books and NetGalley for providing a copy of this book for review consideration. All opinions are my own.

Book Synopsis

If the past few years have taught us anything, it's that by and large the church has failed women. From sexual abuse scandals involving high-profile pastors, to decades-long systemic cover-ups of sexual harassment and mistreatment, to harmful theology that has driven women to leave the church and find community elsewhere, it's clear that something is broken. If we want to fix it, it's time we start listening.

Drawing on new, firsthand research and in-depth interviews, Safe Church allows women to voice the pain they have suffered at the hands of insecure leaders who were often unaware of how their words, actions, and attitudes were harming their sisters in Christ. With practical advice on how to create more equity and less sexism and abuse in the church, this honest look at how misogyny masquerades as biblical truth is a vital resource for pastors, church leaders, and anyone who wants to make a meaningful difference in their own Christian community.

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Book Thoughts

This is not an easy book to read through as it attempts to dismantle the power structures within churches and Christian institutions that end up silencing women. What you find in this book is a compelling case that documents how and why Christian women have been mistreated and the lasting effects it has had on both female victims and the way that churches and ministries function today. While there is much to think through in terms of the theological arguments that the author presents—some of which may garner divergent opinions among Christians—the real strength of this book is in the practical resources that it offers, along with the first-hand accounts of Christian women who have been hurt, abused, and misused by the churches where they served or ministered. It is truly tragic when the body of Christ becomes an unsafe place for half of His people. Advocating for why systems and beliefs need to change in our own churches in order to better treat women the way that Jesus did, it is evident that the author approaches this topic with conviction and humility.

Although there are tinges of cultural feminism wrapped around concepts of biblical femininity, the book still serves to act as a voice for those who have lost their individual and collective voices within Christian institutions, sheerly due to their status as a woman. Despite readers’ stances on women in leadership, what is most heartbreaking are the accounts where women have pleaded for help and have been accused of bringing abuse upon themselves. Dr. Bauman earnestly implores the church to wake up and see how they are harming women and provides ways in which men can educate themselves. Calling all Christians to a higher standard, Safe Church recounts the need for believers to take care of one another and to watch out for those who are most impacted by sexism and misogyny. Ministry professionals, lay leaders, and concerned Christians will all benefit by taking the time to listen to women’s stories, review survey results depicting horrific statistics, and commit to protecting women from harm in our congregations and ministries.

Book Summary

  • Format of book: 📱
  • Rating: ⭐⭐⭐⭐
  • Recommendation: 👍

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